Gay marriage and hypocrisy

 The debate in the House of Commons about gay marriage fascinated me.

 

I am still bewildered by some of the strange and twisted arguments used by those opposing the right for homosexuals to marry. How on earth (or in heaven) is gay marriage supposed to undermine my ‘conventional’ marriage? If marriage is for procreation, then why are marriages allowed between people beyond child-bearing age? In what alternative universe has marriage ever been anything other than a civil contract, controlled by the state?

In the last case, institutional churches may rightly claim to have carried out vast numbers of marriage services, but the words of the actual marriage section are purely legal. No marriage that takes place in Britain is recognised in law without the correct form of words being used in the ceremony and until various other legal requirements are completed. The churches’ claims are legal and financial, not spiritual or religious. There is nothing to stop Christians, or people of other beliefs, from separating the legal and spiritual aspects of what currently takes place in religious buildings.

If people choose to believe that homosexuality is wrong, then so be it. There are also plenty of people who believe that all spiritual beliefs are wrong or that social norms are evil. So be it. Each to his own. But none of these people has the right to deny others a reasonable degree of social, legal and emotional equality. 

It is not the job of Christians to tell other people how to behave, to hold the copyright on the meaning of words or to deny others the same rights of marriage as they enjoy themselves. The job of all followers of Jesus is to represent Jesus, who came 'not to condemn but to save'. How dare divorced MPs stand up and preach on the sanctity of marriage? 

They should look to themselves. Moats and beams! Splinters and planks! Yet more ammunition for critics to claim that 'christian' and 'hypocrite' are synonymous.